from source A(linda), i can infer that linda is a nice gal, at the same time thick skin.
Evidence: "see...i'm so nice.."
source A also tells me that linda is not happy with a
specific person.
Evidence: "can u put your care and concern on your studies instead of all that rubbish"
From source B(jolyn) i can infer that jolyn is replying to source A.
Evidence: "but i am not happy that wat u all say is that we r not showing care and concern to each other"
source B also tells me that jolyn seem to be telling pple that she is a victim and pple takes her for granted.
Evidence: "sometime i feel that some of us r like using each other...esp me."
From source C(kellyn) i can infer that kellyn is a neutral party and is not taking side of any source above.
Evidence: "I agree with wad jeanna said.she is right"
Source A and B also seemed to be blaming each other, at the same time care for each other.
Evidence: "...we care for u.."
Source A is reliable to a certain extent.
Evidence: (cross refer to source C) both agreed with sook fung said.
however, source A is also not reliable.
Evidence from source A: "i cant see going out and study improve anything."
Cross refer to source C: "poeple learn things at different place and different atmosphere"
Source B is a bias source.
Evidence: "i keep keeping this in my heart..but i did not
complain"
However, source B is also reliable.
Evidence: (cross refer to source C) both agree on not sharing secrets with everybody.
In conclusion: All three sources wants care for each other, they wants to treasure their friendship and at the same time put their studies in priority, but all three sources express it in a different way. Thus, it led to a misinterpretation.
well.thats my conclusion.sorry if i said anything wrongly..but at the same time i can train up on my source based skills!((:
THE POWER OF SEVEN,
March
(23:20)
so many things have happened these days. and it not only affects the people involved. other people also care about are also being affected. look at jeanna, she is having her prelims, yet she is always willing to spend that little time trying to find out what is happening between us. i agree with what jeanna said. she is so right. (:
i hope that this episode wont be something that has affected all of our friendship. we are sixteen year olds and we should be mature enough to handle things in the correct perspective. all of us know, this cliqque is made up of people with people who have totally different characters. we have to try to give and take at times. i do admit sometimes i am stubborn too, so forgive me. but like what sookfung said, we must know when to study and play. N's is just coming in two weeks time. just mug for this two weeks, and you can play as much as you want. different people have different comfort zone in studying. there is no point trying to influence someone to have the same studying environment as you. people learn things at different pace and different atmosphere. what is more important is that we can really study. dont put on the front and say that we have studied when we actually didnt managed to get things into our head. we have to accept the fact and accept them for what they are.
and as for putting a mask. how do you know that the person is putting on with a mask? her character could really be like that. sometimes when a person is down, you will find certain friends to pour your sorrows with. take you for example, will you actually tell the whole world why you are angry or sad? we have been together with each other for at least a year. it has alrd been so long, arent you tired of seeing the person with the
mask? and what makes you think that the person with the
mask is not tired with all the acting?
so many things has happened, and definately someone has to take the intiative to patch things up by starting a conversation. what's the point of saving your face when it will just make things more awkward in front of each other? someone definately have to do the job.
i wrote on my blog; define friends. and yanli said this;
friends are pple we trust, they are the ones we can rely on in times of needs. TRUE friends will stay united (?!) always, and they are the ones who KNOW who their real friends are.i hope that our friendship will still be as strong as ever. forgive the bad things and continue to move forward.
i love you guys, and i do treasure our friendship. and i definately hope that you guys feel the same too.
THE POWER OF SEVEN,
Kellyn
(22:05)
from wat i read the blog i can say yes.. i am not putting enough effort in my math.. but in my others sub i think is alright... i am sorry that let u ppl down.. i dun know wat wrong me.. y am i pmsing sometime.. this is my wrong .. i am happy thst u all tell me abt this things.. but i am not happy that wat u all say is that we r not showing care and concern to each other. .. maybe some of us is not showing... if u all really think that way. i think u all should think again!! let not think abt the bad points of each other but the good points.. whenever u all need help i am the one who help u all i am not trying to act hero or thickskin.. soemtime i feel that some of us r like using each other... esp me... i felt tat way... i been keeping this in my heart but i did not complain.. maybe some of u all disagree in this point.. but think... sometime we feel left out.. i am sure everyone in this cliqque feel so... sometime yes we talk among ourself but we should feel it and try not to let anyone left out... another thing is tat some of us rnot willing to listen the commets that other give.. u always think tat u r e right but do not feel other ppl feeling.. in this point u shld really change this is for yr future.. we tell this to u cuz we care abt u.. when something happen some of us will push the blame to each other.. we r like not willing to take up the wrong.. i admit sometime i did but i denied it... i am sorry sook fung.. i know that sometime u really can't stand my nonsense and in the group i pick ppl to show my faces.. i am going to say sorry to all my cliqque.. i promise i am not going to show my face and nonsense thing again.. i am willing to change this point... i am sorry tat maybe some of u all will not like e blog that i type ... but i am telling te truth and i dun want to keep it to myself anymore cus this is a really terrible feeling... i dun want to pretend nothing have happen... as wat sook fungsay that we should not keep this to each other... i just want to say that i am not a robat i am a human .. in this cliqque i dun put on a mask or acting. i am really showing care and concern.. i dun want u all have doubt on me... but u all giving me this kind of feeling ... can u all give think of it ... pls.. i am sorry if i have offend uall...
to me i am going to treasure this friendship no matter wat.. cuz i really like u all.. and now is n-level exam is coming soon.. study hard and take care.. i am always there to help u all if u all need me... take care...
THE POWER OF SEVEN,
JOLYN
(21:54)
I agreed on what sookfung had said...i mean lets take me as a example or something like that...sometime when i go out with you guys rite...i felt left out...cause some of you guys have secret between each other...so like kind of left out some of us....i think you guys should really stop talking about about some secret when we are out together...i mean if you guys wanna talk about some secret...then you might as well just go out with the ppl who you share the secret with...so i hope that when we are out together...i hope ppl won't talk among themselves and won't just PMS all of a sudden...cause seriously...this kind of pissed me off...//this is for a person in our cliqque...i know you are kind of not listening to what we told you to do for you studies...i am serious....cause whatever things that we taught you to do you like just act infront of us that you understand what we teach you or you act like you are listening...but i seriously thinks that you are just acting...cause whatever that we told you to do...you never do it at all....i am very disappointed in that...sometimes i really felt like give it up...but i think again...you are my fren...i can't leave you alone...i really hope that you can stop "acting" or whatsoever....because we care about you thats why we do things for you...and please don't PMS whenever we go out...like all of a sudden...you just walk super fast and left us behide or just kept quiet all of a sudden...it does make some of us irritated you know...and please know when the time you must study and not go out...i mean seriously...i can't see going out and study improve anything...i myself thinks that i can't study outside...and also...why do you care so much about what happen to other ppl...can you put your care and concern on your studies instead of all that rubbish...i;m sure if you do that...you will get flying colours for your result...there is no point crying after when you know your result...you should work hard...not cry!! i'm not writing this to scold you or something..i just hope that you will really think about what you have done that made ppl or me think of you this way...we treat you as our fren thats why you are telling you all this....i'm sorry if i have hurt you in some way or another...i just wanna say out what i really feel about the cliqque lar...//sometimes i'm also like sookfung like that thinking of getting out...but i felt that if god made us be together...then he must had have his own reason....so i really hope that there will be no secret between anyone...and of cause hope that no one want to get out of your group...cause i really don wanna see anyone feeling unhappy or sad...i really mean what i wrote here...hope you all won't be pissed or something...//To sookfung:don't think about the unhappy side...think aboutthe happy times we had together as a cliqque...we really haad fun rite?!Just don't think so much now...concentrade on your N level now...think about all this later....okay???! i will be there if you wanna share with someone your unhappiness..[see...i'm si nice...sookfung...you touched?!!don't cry when you read ya?!!hahahaha...]//i will always be there for you all if you need me...well...thats all i wanna say...take care everyone...bye!
THE POWER OF SEVEN,
Linda
(19:39)
wadever jeanna said,
I SO TOTALLY AGREE WITH HER. ((:JEANNA, UR SO SENSIBLE.
ilu! (:
THE POWER OF SEVEN,
March
(19:11)
mask?did anyone wear?i not too sure too.but if u did, take that off.i do not know wads going on but i know it is something bad.all i know is that you people e N levels will be coming.stop thinking of hanging out late, going to each other hse or even slacked at home.u people should motivate each other to study.tat wads cliqque are fer.wad with that MUGGING abt?it seemed like i haven't talk to u people fer ages.all e words u people used or even said seemed so strange to me.*sighs*
everyone has their own secrets.some choose to keep it to themselves.wads e use of sharing secrets, sookfung?u might think friends should keep no secret to each other.but i think otherwise.they don't tell u secret probably they feel safer keeping to themselves.why bother abt them?sookfung, u got to think of other perspective. everyone is not u.u cant expect people to live up with your expectation right?they have their own way of doing things.u never know who is right until the very last bit. just look forward to our friendships and keep the promised of our friendships.don't because of this small matter, affect everyone's mood.life is yours.its up to u to live it.people, dun hanky panky around k?we all must get good result and promote ur to sec 5 or graduate well.put aside our problems now and start afresh.nothing beats the power of cliqque.
THE POWER OF SEVEN,
JEANNA
(16:17)
